How to Get a Guy to Like You Back? Here is How to Easily Get Him Interested in You Real Fast By Russell Jackson Platinum Quality Author

How do you get a guy to like you back? This question is a frequently asked question among women. There is no one way for a guy to like you as no two men are alike. There is no magic spell or potion that could make a guy unconditionally fall for you. However there are some steps that you can try for you to have a chance to get that guy like you back. Read on to discover what they are...

Be yourself. Stop acting like someone else. Do not pretend to be someone you are not. Be comfortable with who and what you are. Do not try to dress up in the height if fashion where in reality you are a conservative dresser. Do not talk as if you know about the current stock market wherein you cannot even balance your check book. Act natural as this would pay off in the long run.

Do not be too forward or aggressive. Stop trying too hard. Doing so would only make you look desperate. Coming out too strong is a big turn off for most guys. Men are predators by nature and they want to be in control of situations. They want to do the chasing and not the other way around. Even the "timid" ones want to take full control of the situation.

Smile. A sincere and wonderful smile says it all. Try to catch the man's attention without being too obvious. If he looks at you smile a genuine smile and not one of those flirty deliberate ones. If the guy is interested, he should take the next step and engage in conversation.

Get physically close to him. Try to get close to him if you are in a party or any form of gathering. The move should not be too obvious as he might be turned off and flee from you. If an opportunity for a conversation presents itself, grab it! Just say "hi". Don't be too pushy or too be an eager beaver as that will not bode well.

Try to open a conversation with him. If you and him are now talking with each other, try to engage him in general talk. Steer the conversation into "getting-to-know" dialogue. Don't try to open up your heart and spill out your hopes and dreams during your first real conversation. Play it cool and just let the conversation flow.

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Sex Tips for the Rest of Us: Switch It Up...With Yourself Expanding masturbation techniques By Cory Silverberg

One of the tricky things about our sexual response is how easily it is habituated. A great sex therapist put it this way: humans take a great sexual act and then do it over and over again the exact same way until all the excitement, creativity, and spontaneity is gone. And we wonder why our sex lives sometimes seem “boring”! Whether you’re in a long term relationship, single-footloose-and fancy free, or somewhere in between, it’s easy to find yourself in a rut.

To inspire change in your sex life, and get you thinking about all the possibilities outside of your current sexual box (pardon the gendered pun) this week start by switching up one aspect of your solo sex life.

* If you always masturbate with your right hand, use your left.
* If you only masturbate at night, in your bed, take a moment to get down with your fine self in some other (safe and private) locale.
* If you tend to rely on the same fantasies, try a new one, or dig up one from your past.

You get the idea…Whatever you’ve been doing, do it differently. It might be a bit jarring or frustrating at first, but shocking yourself out of your routine can bring unexpected results.

Have fun!

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Advanced Masturbation Techniques By Cory Silverberg, About.com Guide Updated January 22, 2010

What defines advanced masturbation, as opposed to beginner masturbation? Because masturbation is all about pleasing yourself, when it comes to evaluating what makes for great masturbation technique you are both the judge and jury.

But hundreds of years of masturbation myths have left many at a loss for ways to spice up their masturbation routine. If you've already covered the basics of masturbation techniques for men and masturbation techniques for women, but feel like you're in a self-love rut, consider these advanced masturbation techniques.
Use Sex Toys for Stimulation and Fantasy
More and more people are getting comfortable introducing sex toys into their sexual routine. And while sex toys aren’t required for great sex, they can help take masturbation to a new level in at least two ways.
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Voyeur Self
When you masturbate are your eyes usually closed? Even if you’re someone who likes to read erotic fiction, what adult films, or look at magazines or comics, when you’re nearest to the point of release or orgasm, where are you looking? There’s no research to guide us here, but there are many who don’t take full advantage of the emotional, psychological, and even spiritual possibilities of masturbation.
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Talk Dirty
Carol Queen, author of the highly recommended Exhibitionism for the Shy suggests that the best way to get comfortable with talking dirty is to do it when you masturbate. It can also be an amazing way of spicing up your masturbation, and loosening you up in general.
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Exploring Taboo Fantasy
The fact that masturbation is private and that you are the only person you need to consider when masturbating, means it can be an excellent place to explore the limits of your sexual desires. We live in a culture with strong sexual taboos, which we learn almost invisibly from an early age. While many would never want to have sex that might fall into a cultural taboo category, most of us imagine it at times.
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Trying New Masturbation Sex Positions
Betty Dodson, considered by many to be the Grandmother of Masturbation, often writes about the way we hold our bodies when we masturbate. Many of us keep very stiff (no pun intended) and still when we masturbate, and only relax once we have climaxed. In her books and videos, Dodson highlights the importance of moving while you masturbate.
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BDSM 101 - Difference Between a Submissive and a Slave : Author Bea Amor

There have been many articles about this subject and the views aren't always the same. BDSM has been around for quite some time and some definitions have been developed to describe someone's role and point of view. It
helps to define roles, as it helps people who are looking for a partner to distinguish exactly what would turn them on and also restricts the number of possibilities to interact with. Unfortunately there has been a disturbing trend to use definitions loosely or to disregard them completely, adopting the stance that each person determines who or what they think they are. Therefore some people call themselves slaves when they are definitely not and some call themselves submissives, while they are in fact slaves. I have tried to avoid writing on this topic, as the word slave could attract different types of searches that I do not want to be associated with. These searches are the ones looking for non-consensual slaves that can be forced into servitude or slave trade, that in my opinion is detestable. I wanted to distance myself from that before I even defined anything. If you wanted to find anything like that, then you may as well go elsewhere, because this is focused on consensual slavery.
There are several distinctions and differences between a submissive and a slave. I will take the term submissive first. A submissive is a person with an intense desire to serve that does so under some conditions. The
conditions would typically include terms of service, length of service, which areas of the submissives' life the dominant does not get to control, what the hard and soft limits are when they play or just interact, and of course the safe word. In many ways the submissive controls play. Hard limits are activities that a dominant will not be able to indulge with the submissive. Hard limits broken would lead to the end of a scene, relationship or arrangement and a serious breach of trust. Soft limits are limits that can be broken, but only after it has been discussed with the submissive. These are things the submissive is not excited about doing, but will try if it seems to excite the dominant or causes some latent excitement and fear in the submissive as well. The safe word ends all play. The dominant has free reign as long as he or she stays within the set limits.

After a scene, many submissives go back to controlling their own lives. They slip in and out of the role of submissive in most cases. They continue to make their own decisions and even in a 24/7 situation will continue to control those areas of their lives that are off limits to the dominant. A submissive submits every time a scene starts or some activity where the dominant has been given control commences. The choice is hers or his every single time the dominant requires submission. A submissive can walk away from a scene because something is not working for them and completely slip out of role whenever they feel the need to discuss something about the situation with their dominant. This does not indicate a lack of the need to submit or serve though.

Now we turn to the slave - the consensual slave. The slave gives up all rights to make their own decisions, becomes the "property" of a Master or Mistress, takes on the limits of their Master or Mistress and does what is asked of them regardless of their feelings about it. Sometimes a slave will give up all rights to property of their own and will continue to work for the household, having to ask permission to use any money they earn. Slaves earn privileges and do not have rights. A slave submits once - when the collar is placed around his or her neck and when something is difficult, has to ask for help to accomplish it. Slaves are not kept in basements or locked away forever. They are strong people who have an intense desire to please another human being and now has the freedom to live that desire and not have to submit to anyone else but those chosen by their Master or Mistress. Taking on the limits of another means that slaves have to ensure that the limits of the dominant they are talking to matches theirs, as their only choice is choosing the dominant. It is responsible to make sure that the person does match them or their preferences.

Can a slave be sold to another? No, most Masters or Mistresses would never do that. Remember this is consensual slavery, a 24/7 arrangement with one person fully in control and another person obeying all the commands
and wishes expressed by the other because both of them want this. There is often a lot of love involved in this type of relationship as well. There are mock slave auctions that are used as fund raisers in the community, and slaves would go and serve another man or woman for the evening, but they always go back to the person they chose to be with. Can a slave end a relationship? Yes, they can petition their dominant for release and no responsible dominant would say no if nothing could be done to heal the relationship.

The difference between the two does not make one better than the other. I have seen countless submissives that serve as beautifully and perfectly as some slaves do and prefer not to be called slaves because of the negative connotation to that word. I have also seen many wannabe slaves struggle until they eventually found their place as submissives. It is difficult to devote one's entire life to another person but it is also incredibly rewarding.